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Men and women garden differently

gardening-woman.jpg Fact or fallacy? Judy Lowe from Diggin' it blog would have us believe that our gender plays an important part in how we garden. In fact, she even makes a startling observation;
Still, in my long experience, more men than women seem to be interested in growing dahlias the size of dinner plates, and more women than men love herbs.

Upon reflection, after quite a few years of reading through gardening blogs - most by women but a few of us blokes give it a go too - it appears that this revelation may actually have some merit. And, reading garden blogs written by both sexes, the different focus drawn by each is quite apparent.

For women, pictures of flowers seem to adorn their online journals while guys are more happier discussing gardening issues such as GM crops, eradication of pests and their beloved veggie patch with the optimistic giant pumpkin sheltered in the background. Please don't hear me wrong, I'm not making a statement as to which is better or right, merely observing a practice.

This is not a new discussion but one that I've mentioned a few times here on GTNI. For example, I wrote a post two years ago asking "Is gardening with a spouse a chore?" highlighting a few of our different approaches to the garden and then last year I wrote a 'tongue-in-cheek' post discussing "Are men better gardeners than women?".

While our genetic makeup is quite different we have probably always assumed that when it comes to gardening, our focus and attention is the same. I mean, we're not debating whether guys would rather do macrame or rock climbing we're just discussing gardening. Surely the hobby is defined enough to keep us all on the same page?

If it were then we would be sadly missing the point. Regardless of gender, some people 'garden' by collecting orchids or training bonsai. Others focus their activity on wholistic gardening (from veggies to flowers, composting to mowing lawn) and still others live for propagating and hybridization of plants.

Gardening, as a hobby, is incredibly diverse and I'm not sure that generalizations can be made based on set variables - even gender. Or can they? What do you think?






Comments

Yesterday I was in the garden, sweet daughter was smelling the remaining flowers and building little houses for the worms. Baby Son was wondering around throwing dirt and looking for bugs to stomp and otherwise squish. Whether adult gardeners have differences based on gender I do not know As a mother of 5 I have observed that children absolutely do!

I am not sure men and women garden differently based on gender. At first glance I would say yes because men and women seem to do everything differently! But then, when you really think about it we really don't always do things differently-we just look at things differently. So I think we (women) garden using pretty much the same techniques as you men, yet view our gardens differently. Does that make sense? :)

I think we do. I've worked at a few garden centers and most of the time I knew what was going to be asked or picked.

Just my opinion and what has happened to me:
Men will talk about the mechanics of a plant. Like maintenance, species, dividing, fertilizer, longevity. They want to know if they are getting their money's worth. They also will talk you to death. They will follow you to all the phamplets and books on the subject. They are more likely to buy only one plant at a time.

Women buy more on impulse. They want to know what goes together and please give them what nobody else will have. Give them maintenance free. Give them something that blooms all summer. They buy less trees and shrubs. They are also more likely to buy a buzzing bee plant poke or garden saying.

I think that there may be some difference, but it is more a reflection of how society values different qualities in men and different qualities in women rather than an intrinsic difference between genders. From the moment they are born most girls are encouraged to be soft and pretty and nurturing and boys are taught the importance of being brave and clever and analytical, so this might be translating into gardening styles.

My mother and father have always gardened a lot and together and my brother and I garden now too and while we each have our own individual preferences, I haven't noticed a gender split and I think that is because it has always been treated as a neutral activity.

(I'm not saying that men and women are 100% the same, but gender roles are incredibly pervasive and so I am very skeptical of sweeping "girls are this way; boys are this way" statements. There is more variety between individuals than there is between men and women as a whole.)

Yes I do think there is a difference between man and women and what they grow. I have a post on my blog "Is it a male thinkg to grow Chilis"? I am a director of a seed company and I do se that there are much more men bying chiliseed than women.

Just a small example in the discussion but I think the topis is really interesting. //Anna

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