Gardening tips, gardening info and heaps of ideas to help gardeners of all experience get more out of their hobby and out of their gardens.
Gardening is not the easiest hobby to succeed at. It's certainly not the hardest either. Yet it appears that every person with a conscience is beginning to take it up as the issues surrounding climate change become prevalent. And just like the fads that pass through our schoolyards there are some who keep going and others who eventually quit.
You can almost guarantee that when any interest starts to generate some buzz it attracts people in droves. However the turnstiles aren't just one-way. After a period of time some of the early adopters may become disenchanted and eventually leave. They'll take up new hobbies or perhaps revisit old ones but this current fad will find a home in the closet along with the exercise equipment and the yo-yo they always promised they would master.
But gardening shouldn't be one of those fads. It's a lifestyle not a fashion accessory.
So why do people quit gardening and how can they be helped to continue pressing on rather than give up as challenges come their way? Gardeners give up for a variety of reasons but mostly they can be pinpointed back to these five;
Suddenly there is a whole new vocabulary to learn, tools to familiarise yourself with and methods of doing things that separate the novices from the gurus. Yet where to start seems unclear and the "How to be a gardener in 20 minutes or less" book that you picked up from Amazon.com is rudimentary at best.
I wrote a post awhile back titled 21 Skills Every Gardener Should Have with links to various sites that offered some knowledge on the tasks outlined. In it, it features some of the very basics that gardeners should be able to assimilate to and eventually master and holds some value as a way to progress your knowledge, and skill, as a gardener.
Yet you shouldn't be discouraged that your dream of subduing several acres of wild growth can't be achieved in the first year. And setting goals beyond your means will always have the opposite effect on whether you will see this new hobby through or take the easy road out. Work on something small first and then graduate into bigger and more complex challenges.
You have to stop listening to these people.
Instead, replace them with people who are already enjoying success as gardeners. Those who consistently keep producing in their gardens are voices you need to be listening to and usually they will be the people who will champion your own efforts.
Join a gardening club in your area, attend local gardening info sessions, get friendly with your local nursery owner - do whatever it takes to be around people who are passionate about gardening and would give their right eye for you to succeed as well. If you're online, and you probably are if you're reading this post, then join some gardening forums or become a member of Blotanical where hundreds of other gardeners hang out.
Do yourself a favour if this is delibitating your gardening experience and join up with others so that costs can be shared. Allotments, or community gardens, are a great way to get involved without the financial burden. Or, find like-minded gardeners willing to share seeds, split the purchase of gardening tools and trade resources.
Sadly, many people 'TRY' gardening without really getting into it and after a few failed veggie crops they move on to the next BIG thing. It's a shame to see people do this but in reality there is no sure-fire way to grow people through it.
Quitting gardening should be a last resort and one that shouldn't be taken lightly. It's a great hobby for many reasons and excusing yourself with one of the reasons above is an injustice that can be spared.
Comments
I can identify with the expense and support, or lack of it, to a certain degree. But gardening feeds my soul. Whether it's getting my hands into warm, dark soil while planting a new annual, or hiking along the edge of a forest riverbank -- the thrill is the same. I cannot imagine my life without plants in it. I think people garden for different reasons, however -- some do see it as a new hobby to try, some view it as a "life giving force". It's easy to get discouraged, by times, and that's the point at which the hobbyists and "life force gardeners" separate, I believe. Just MHO. :)
Posted by: Nancy Bond | May 5, 2008 11:50 AM
I totally agree, here in the UK we have had alot of garden style programmes with garden makeovers and sales at garden centres soared, but they are now experiencing a decline and this has been attributed to the reduction in garden make over programmes.
As for learning to beat your son on the playstation - I dont think I will ever beat him
Posted by: patientgardener | May 5, 2008 8:43 PM
I think gardening is a great lesson in being forgiving of yourself! Start with the simple expectation of just learning or sharing the experience with your family. We raise dwarf fruit trees, which can be grown in containers. We chose this because we wanted to include the whole family. The reward is the kids get to harvest the "fruits of their labor". Having resources helps with the questions they ask, too.
Posted by: Molly | May 6, 2008 5:48 AM
I think gardening is a great lesson in being forgiving of yourself! Start with the simple expectation of just learning or sharing the experience with your family. We raise dwarf fruit trees, which can be grown in containers. We chose this because we wanted to include the whole family. The reward is the kids get to harvest the "fruits of their labor". Having resources helps with the questions they ask, too.
Posted by: Molly | May 6, 2008 5:51 AM
I can't seem to curb my impulse to aquire more plants. I guess I've been doing better the last couple of years though. It used to get very expensive for me. The fact that Cheesehead enjoys plants too doesn't help me restrain myslef either.
Posted by: Cinj | May 6, 2008 11:03 AM
You forgot one: age. I've had to cut back on my gardening because I just don't have the strength to do as much any more.
Posted by: Sally | May 6, 2008 8:39 PM