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Have you ever tried expressing yourself to another person in a language that's not quite natural for you?
You try to tell them that 'you enjoy their friendship' but it comes out as though 'you want to pick their nose with a gigantic pitchfork' - or worse! Often the meaning gets lost in translation.
It's exactly the same with flowers. Each flower has its own meaning and communicates a different message when being given as a gift. You certainly wouldn't take a red rose to a funeral or give a black tulip to the mother-of-the-bride - though she may give you one. So while a flower given as a gift can mean the world to the person receiving it, it can also mean end of yours if it's taken the wrong way.
Rather than take the risk, I've compiled a little list of more than 300 flowers and their meanings. [If I've missed any, email me and I'll update it immediately].
A | ||
| Acacia | Beauty in retirement; Friendship; Concealed love: Chaste love | |
| Achillea Millefolia | War | |
| Aconite | Beware, a deadly foe is near, misanthropy | |
| Agapanthus | Love letters, love. | |
| Agnus Castus | Coldness, indifference | |
| Allium | Unity; Humility; Patience | |
| Allspice | Compassion | |
| Almond Blossom | Hope, lover's charm | |
| Aloe Vera | Grief | |
| Alstromeria | Wealth, prosperity, fortune, devotion, friendship | |
| Alyssum | Worth beyond beauty | |
| Amaranth | Fidelity | |
| Amaryllis | Pride; Splendid Beauty; Timidity | |
| Ambrosia | Love is reciprocated. | |
| Anemone | Forsaken, expectation, anticipation | |
| Angelica | Inspiration | |
| Aniseed | Restoration of youth | |
| Anthurium | Hospitality | |
| Apple Blossom | Hope, good fortune, better things to come | |
| Arbor Vitae | True friendship | |
| Arbutus | Thee only do I love. | |
| Artemisia | Dignity | |
| Asparagus Fern | Fascination. | |
| Asphodel | My regrets follow you to the grave | |
| Aster | Symbol of love; Daintiness; Afterthought | |
| Astilbe | I'll still be waiting. | |
| Azalea | Love, romance, first love, fragile passion, temperance. It is also a symbol of womanhood. | |
B | Back to Top | |
| Baby's Breath | Pure of heart; Innocence | |
| Bachelor's Button | Hope in love; Felicity; Delicacy; Single blessedness | |
| Balsam | Ardent love. | |
| Basil | Best wishes, love | |
| Begonia | Beware. | |
| Bellflower | Gratitude | |
| Bells Of Ireland | Good luck. | |
| Betony | Surprise | |
| Bilberry | Treachery | |
| Bird Of Paradise | Magnificence, Joyfulness | |
| Bittersweet | Truth. | |
| Blue Periwinkle | Friendship | |
| Blue Violet | Modesty, faithfulness | |
| Bluebells | Humility, constancy. | |
| Borage | Courage, bluntness | |
| Bouquet of Withered Flowers | Rejected love | |
| Bouvardia | Enthusiasm. | |
| Broom | Humility. | |
| Bulrush | Indiscretion, docility | |
| Burnet | A merry heart | |
| Buttercup | Childishness. | |
C | Back to Top | |
| Cactus | Endurance. | |
| Caladium | Great joy and delight | |
| Calendula | Grief, jealousy. Also the birthflower for October. | |
| Camellia | Loveliness, gratitude | |
| Camellia, Blue | You're a flame in my heart | |
| Camellia, Pink | Longing for you. | |
| Camellia, Red | You're a flame in my heart. | |
| Camellia, White | You're adorable. | |
| Chamomile | Energy in adversity, patience | |
| Candytuft | Indifference | |
| Carnation | Fascination; Womanly love; Devoted love | |
| Carnation, Solid color | Yes | |
| Carnation, Pink | A woman's love, I'll never forget you, mother's love. | |
| Carnation, Purple | Capriciousness. | |
| Carnation, Red | My heart aches for you; Admiration | |
| Carnation, Striped | Refusal, No, sorry I can't be with you. | |
| Carnation, White | Innocence; Sweet and lovely; Pure love; Woman's good luck gift; You're adorable | |
| Carnation, Yellow | Disdain, rejection, you have disappointed me. | |
| Cattail | Peace, prosperity. | |
| Chrysanthemum | Cheerfulness; You're a wonderful friend; Rest; Loveliness; Abundance; Wealth | |
| Chrysanthemum, Red | I love you | |
| Chrysanthemum, White | Truth | |
| Chrysanthemum, Yellow | Slighted love. | |
| Cinnamon | My fortune is yours | |
| Clematis | Clever, intellectual. 8th wedding anniversary. | |
| Columbine | Folly | |
| Coriander | Lust | |
| Cornflower | Delicacy, refinement | |
| Cosmos | Modesty. 2nd wedding anniversary. | |
| Cowslip | Pensiveness, winning grace | |
| Coxcomb | Foppery | |
| Crocus | Cheerfulness, abuse not. | |
| Cyclamen | Resignation, good-bye. Modesty and shyness | |
D | Back to Top | |
| Daffodil | You're the only one; Regard; Unrequited love; The sun shines when I'm with you | |
| Daffodil, Several | Joy, happiness. | |
| Daffodil, Single | Misfortune. | |
| Dahlia | Instability. 14th wedding anniversary. | |
| Daisy | Innocence, loyal love, I'll never tell, purity. 5th wedding anniversary. | |
| Dandelion | Faithfulness, happiness, love's oracle. | |
| Daylily | Conquetry | |
| Delphinium | Flight of fancy; Ardent attachment | |
| Dogwood | Durability | |
E | Back to Top | |
| Ebony | Blackness. | |
| Edelweiss | Daring, noble courage | |
| Elder | Zealousness | |
| Elm | Dignity | |
| Eremurus | Endurance. | |
| Eucalyptus | Protection | |
| Euphorbia | Persistence. | |
F | Back to Top | |
| Fennel | Worthy of all praise, strength | |
| Fern | Sincerity, magic, fascination, confidence, shelter. | |
| Fern, Maidenhair | Secret bond of love | |
| Fig | Argument | |
| Fir | Time. | |
| Flax | Domestic symbol. | |
| Fleur De Lis | Flame; Burning | |
| Flytrap | Deceit. | |
| Forget-Me-Not | True love, hope, remembrance, memories. | |
| Forsythia | Good nature; Innocence; Anticipation | |
| Four-Leaf Clover | Good luck, be mine. | |
| Foxglove | Insincerity. | |
| Freesia | Innocence, thoughtfulness. | |
| Fuschia | Taste. 3rd wedding anniversary. | |
| Fuschia, Scarlet | Fast | |
G | Back to Top | |
| Galax | Encouragement | |
| Gardenia | You're lovely, secret love, joy, sweet love, good luck. | |
| Garland of Roses | Reward of virtue | |
| Garlic | Courage, strength | |
| Geranium | Stupidity, folly, comfort, gentility. 4th wedding anniversary. | |
| Geranium, Rose | Preference | |
| Gillyflower | Bonds of affection | |
| Ginger | Strength. | |
| Gladiolus | Strength of character, remembrance, infatuation, splendid beauty. | |
| Gloxinia | Love at first sight | |
| Golden rod | Precaution | |
| Grass | Submission, surrender | |
| Guelder rose | Winter, age | |
H | Back to Top | |
| Harebell | Submission, grief | |
| Hawthorn | Hope | |
| Hazel | Reconciliation | |
| Heather, Pink | Good luck | |
| Heather, Lavender | Admiration, solitude, beauty. | |
| Heather, White | Protection, wishes will come true. | |
| Helenium | Tears | |
| Hemlock | You will be my death | |
| Hibiscus | Delicate beauty. | |
| Holly | Foresight, defense, domestic happiness, enchantment. | |
| Hollyhock | Ambition, fruitfulness. 13th wedding anniversary. | |
| Honeysuckle | Devoted affection, generosity | |
| Honeysuckle, Yellow | Bonds of love | |
| Huckleberry | Simple pleasure. | |
| Hyacinth | Games; Sports; Rashness | |
| Hyacinth, Blue | Constancy. | |
| Hyacinth, Purple | I am sorry, sorrow, please forgive me. | |
| Hyacinth, Red Or Pink | Play. | |
| Hyacinth, White | Loveliness, I'll pray for you. | |
| Hyacinth, Yellow | Jealousy. | |
| Hydrangea | Thank you for understanding, frigidity, heartlessness, heartless, boastfulness. | |
I | Back to Top | |
| Ice Plant | Your looks freeze me | |
| Iris | Warmth of affection | |
| Iris, Blue | Faith, hope. | |
| Iris, Purple | Wisdom, compliments. | |
| Iris, White | Purity. | |
| Iris, Yellow | Passion. | |
| Ivy | Wedded love; Fidelity; Friendship; Affection | |
| Ixia | Happiness. | |
J | Back to Top | |
| Jack-In-The-Pulpit | 7th wedding anniversary. | |
| Jasmine | Amiability, sensuality, transport of joy, grace and elegance | |
| Jasmine (White or Indian) | Amiability , I attach myself to you, sensuality, attachment. | |
| Jasmine, Spanish | Sensuality. | |
| Jasmine, Yellow | Grace, elegance. | |
| Jonquil | Sympathy, love me, affection returned, desire. | |
| Judas Tree | Unbelief, doubt, betrayal | |
L | Back to Top | |
| Lady Slipper | Capricious beauty. | |
| Larkspur | Fickleness, ardent attachment, levity, lightness. The birthflower for July. | |
| Larkspur, Pink | Fickleness. | |
| Larkspur, Purple | First love. | |
| Lavender | Devotion. | |
| Leatherleaf Fern | Fascination. | |
| Lemon Balm | Brings love | |
| Lemon Blossom | Fidelity in love | |
| Lilac | Youthful, humility, confidence. | |
| Lilac, Purple | First emotion of love | |
| Lilac, White | Youthful innocence; Purity; Modesty; Virginity; Majesty | |
| Lily | Majesty, wealth, pride, innocence, purity. | |
| Lily of the Valley | Return of happiness | |
| Lily, Calla | Magnificent beauty. 6th wedding anniversary. | |
| Lily, Eucharis | Maiden charms | |
| Lily, Longiflorum | Pure; Modest | |
| Lily, Orange | Flame, I burn for you. | |
| Lily, Tiger | Wealth; Pride; Prosperity | |
| Lily, Water | Purity of heart. | |
| Lily, White | Purity, modesty, virginity, majesty, heavenly being with you. | |
| Lily, Yellow | I'm walking on air, false, gay. | |
| Lotus Blossum | Estranged love. | |
| Love lies Bleeding | Hopeless, not heartless | |
M | Back to Top | |
| Magnolia | Dignity, love of nature, nobility. | |
| Marigold | Grief; Cruelty; Jealousy; Sacred affection; Despair | |
| Marigold, Pot | Grief, despair. | |
| Meadowsweet | Uselessness | |
| Mimosa | Sensitivity, secret love. | |
| Mint | Virtue. | |
| Mistletoe | Kiss me, affection, to surmount difficulties. | |
| Monkshood | Beware, a deadly foe is near, danger. | |
| Morning Glory | Loves you. 11th wedding anniversary. | |
| Moss | Maternal love, charity. | |
| Myrtle | Duty; Affection; Home; Love; Discipline; Instruction | |
N | Back to Top | |
| Narcissus | Stay as sweet as you are; Egotism; Formality | |
| Nasturtium | Conquest, victory in battle. 40th wedding anniversary. | |
| Nightshade | Truth | |
O | Back to Top | |
| Oak Leaves | Bravery. | |
| Oleander | Caution; Beauty; Grace | |
| Olive Branch | Peace. | |
| Orange Blossom | Purity; Innocence; Eternal love; Marriage; Fruitfulness; Lovliness | |
| Orange, Mock | Deceit. | |
| Orchid | Rare beauty, a belle. | |
| Orchid(Cattleaya) | Mature charm | |
P | Back to Top | |
| Palm Leaves | Victory, success. | |
| Pansy | Thoughtful reflection; Merriment | |
| Paperwhite | Aphrodisiac due to its intoxicating scent. | |
| Parsley | Festivities, fertility | |
| Peach Blossom | Captive | |
| Peony | Bashfulness, shame, happy life, happy marriage, good health, prosperity. | |
| Peppermint | Cordiality, warmth of feelings | |
| Periwinkle | Friendship. | |
| Periwinkle, Blue | Early friendship | |
| Periwinkle, White | Pleasures of memory | |
| Petunia | Resentment, anger, your presence soothes me. | |
| Phlox | Unanimity. | |
| Pine | Hope; Pity | |
| Poinsettia | Be of good cheer | |
| Polyanthus | Pride of riches | |
| Poppy | Eternal sleep, oblivion, imagination. 9th wedding anniversary. | |
| Poppy, Red | Pleasure, consolation, remembrance. | |
| Poppy, White | Consolation, sleep, rest. | |
| Poppy, Yellow | Wealth, success. | |
| Prickly Pear | Satire | |
| Primrose | I can't live without you. | |
| Primrose, Evening | Happy love. | |
Q | Back to Top | |
| Quaking Grass | Agitation | |
| Queen Anne's Lace | Haven. | |
| Quince | Temptation | |
R | Back to Top | |
| Ranunculus | You are radiant with charm, radiant charm. | |
| Rhododendron | Danger, caution. | |
| Rose | Love, passion, perfection. | |
| Rose, Black | Death | |
| Rose, White with Ivy | Purity of intentions and promise of fidelity | |
| Rose, Assorted Colours | You're everything to me | |
| Rose, Bud, Small | Pure and lovely, beauty and youth, a heart innocent of love. | |
| Rose, Burgundy | Unconscious Beauty | |
| Rose, Burgundy | Beauty within. | |
| Rose, Coral | Desire. | |
| Rose, Dark Crimson | Mourning. | |
| Rose, Dark Pink | Thankfulness. | |
| Rose, Deep Red | Un-self-conscious beauty. | |
| Rose, Hibiscus | Delicate beauty. | |
| Rose, Lavender | Love at first sight, enchantment. | |
| Rose, Leaf | You may hope. | |
| Rose, Light Pink | Grace, gladness, joy, perfect happiness, please believe me, gratitude, admiration, gentility. | |
| Rose, Long Stemmed | I will remember you always | |
| Rose, Moss | Confessions of love. | |
| Rose, Orange | Fascination, display feeling of enthusiasm. | |
| Rose, Orange or Coral | Desire | |
| Rose, Peach | Desire, gratitude, apprecation, admiration, sympathy, modesty. | |
| Rose, Pink | Happiness, appreciation, admiration, friendship, sympathy, grace, gentleness. | |
| Rose, Red | Love, passion, respect, courage, I love you, beauty, pure and lovely, prosperity. | |
| Rose, Red & White Together | Unity | |
| Rose, Short Stemmed | Sweetheart; Girlhood | |
| Rose, Single Red | Simplicity; I love you | |
| Rose, Single, Full Bloom | I love you, I still love you, new love. | |
| Rose, Sweetheart | Darling, Dear or Honey | |
| Rose, Thornless | Love at first sight. | |
| Rose, White | Innocence; Purity; Heavenly; Secrecy; Silence; Charm | |
| Rose, White, Dried | Death is preferable to loss of virtue. | |
| Rose, Yellow | Joy, friendship, true love, decrease of love, jealousy, trying to care, freedom, slighted love. | |
| Rosebud | Beauty; Youth; A heart innocent of love | |
| Rosebud, Red | Pure; Lovely | |
| Rosebud, White | Girlhood | |
| Rosemary | Remembrance, purity, rebirth. | |
| Roses, Mature Blooms | Gratitude | |
| Roses, Yellow & Orange Together | Passionate thoughts. | |
| Roses, Yellow & Red Together | Happiness, congratulations. | |
S | Back to Top | |
| Saffron | Beware of excess | |
| Sage | Virtue. | |
| Salal | Zest. | |
| Scabious | Unfortunate love. | |
| Shamrock | Light heartedness | |
| Smilax | Loveliness. | |
| Snapdragon | Deception, gracious lady, presumption. | |
| Snowdrop | Hope | |
| Spearmint | Warm sentiment. | |
| Spider Flower | Elope with me. | |
| Star Of Bethlehem | Purity. | |
| Statice | Sympathy, remembrance, success. | |
| Stephanotis | Happiness in marriage, desire to travel. | |
| Stock | Lasting beauty, bonds of affection, promptness, you'll always be beautiful to me. | |
| Strawberry | Perfect goodness | |
| Sunflower | Pure thoughts, adoration, sunshine | |
| Sweet Pea | Delicate pleasures; Goodbye; Blissful pleasure; Departure; Thank you for a lovely time | |
| Sweet William | Gallantry, smile, finesse. | |
T | Back to Top | |
| Tamarisk | Crime | |
| Thrift | Sympathy | |
| Thyme | Activity. | |
| Tuberose | Dangerous pleasure. | |
| Tulip | Declaration of love, fame, passion | |
| Tulip, Red | Believe me, declaration of love, fame. | |
| Tulip, Variegated | Beautiful eyes. | |
| Tulip, Yellow | Hopeless love, there's sunshine in your smile. | |
V | Back to Top | |
| Verbena | Will you get your wish? | |
| Vernal Grass | Poor but happy | |
| Veronica | Fidelity | |
| Violet | Modesty, affection, faithfulness, virtue | |
| Violet, Blue | Watchfulness, faithfulness, I'll always be true. | |
| Violet, Purple | Thoughts of you, blue love. | |
| Violet, White | Let's take a chance, youthful innocence. | |
| Violet, Yellow | Love of country. | |
| Viscaria | Will you dance with me? | |
W | Back to Top | |
| Wallflower | Fidelity in adversity | |
| Weeping Willow | Mourning. | |
| Wheat | Friendliness. | |
| Wisteria | Welcome | |
| Woodruff | Sweet humility | |
Y | Back to Top | |
| Yarrow | Healing, sorrow. | |
Z | Back to Top | |
| Zinnia | Thoughts of absent friends, in memory of an absent friend. | |
| Zinnia, Magenta | Lasting affection | |
| Zinnia, Mixed | Thinking / In memory of an absent friend | |
| Zinnia, Scarlet | Constancy. | |
| Zinnia, White | Goodness. | |
| Zinnia, Yellow | Daily remembrance. |
Disclaimer: As there are many of these lists residing in cyberspace I haven't referenced any particular one that I have accessed these meanings from. Each of these lists seem to carry a few of each others and there is no referencing in place. If I have inadvertently taken a meaning from your site and your are the original owner please don't hesitate to contact me and shall append the referencing.
Comments
Hmmm - looks like the only thing I can say is "Happy Fourth Wedding Anniversary". [There's a Pelargonium/Geranium blooming on the windowsill.]
Stuart, where are the daffodils or narcissus? I think what you call Agnus castus is the same one that we call Vitex or Chaste Tree.
And the lollypop garden is so weird!
Annie at the Transplantable Rose
Posted by: Annie in Austin | March 2, 2007 5:23 AM
Would you happen to know the meaning of the hibiscus flower?
Posted by: Vickie | May 13, 2008 5:46 AM